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Aspen Colorado is a playground for many billionaires and celebrities. And so, as a therapist in the area, I have counseled a large of heterosexual couples with a ificant age gap between them. There are always exceptions to any rule, but a clear pattern has emerged over my many years in practice that has truly surprised me.

I am not proud to say that years ago I had a strong stereotype in my mind. It was that a younger woman who married an older man would always be a gold digger.

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She never worked and never wanted to. The man would be a sexist who only valued her for her youthful perfection and expected nothing else from the relationship but for her to look good on his arm. Your ego has been raked over the coals. Every flaw you have has been shouted at you. The guys you date have roommates. They have no gas money.

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They are generally stoned, aimless and only looking for fun. Now imagine this young woman meets this older man. What happens next is magical. This man finds a woman who appreciates everything about him. He is so smart.

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He is so put together. He has matching socks and credit cards. He makes dates and shows up on time. He makes reservations. His car is clean. He can hold an intelligent conversation.

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He is actually getting to know her and not pawing at her all the time. He is the greatest man she has ever dated by far. He feels like he really is the greatest man too because she adores him. They fall in love and get married. He is typically desperate and confused. When I begin counseling a couple, my typical structure is to have one individual session with each member. This allows the man and the woman to speak freely and inform me of what they see as the issues in private.

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Then the three of us meet together from there. He would do anything for her. He adores her.

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Then he says the worst thing someone coming into couples counseling can say. Then I meet with the younger woman. Now she has come to the disappointing realization that he was not Superman.

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He was just an older man. When you are young anyone older should be able to impress you. They typically are more responsible and confident and knowledgeable. They ask you deep questions. They are not just after one thing.

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Once the younger woman and her peers grow older too, she begins seeing her older husband as ordinary, maybe even as just old. She feels conned. Meanwhile, he has no idea what went wrong. Honestly, I always feel sad for both of them. Then there is sex. Men, however, typically experience a steady decline. This does not help matters at all.

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So, the stereotype in my mind was very wrong. I find that both the younger woman and the older man had good intentions going in. However, they do almost always hit this critical stage when the veil has dropped and reality sets in.

I always advise people to date and marry within ten years in age; beginning no sooner than 25 to As great as it is to have a young partner show you new things, and an older partner teach you new things, there is no substitute for a partner who is your peer.

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No one can ever go back to the beginning of any relationship. They are just never as easy as they seemed in the beginning. These couples should go to counseling. They must learn to let each other change. They need to appreciate, respect and accept each other as they are at present.

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All relationships have challenges. In my experience this is the unique challenge of an older man and a younger woman as time goes by, simply put, they both get older. Therapy can be a powerful tool for healing and personal growth. But, sometimes, myths about therapy can stop you from reaching out for help.

Maybe you feel uncomfortable with your current therapist, or your needs have changed. In any case, here are some helpful tips for changing therapists…. Sand tray therapy is a technique where you create a mini-world within a sand tray.

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It's most often used with children, but adults can benefit, too. Free association — originally developed by Freud — is a therapy tool that helps you access the contents of your unconscious mind. Starting therapy for the first time doesn't have to be stressful. Here's a step-by-step guide of what to expect from your first psychological….

When you disclose too much in therapy, you might feel anxious and even awful.

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But sharing revealing information can actually lead to growth and…. Focusing on self-help doesn't have to be a solo act. Here's how self-help groups can provide support for diverse life circumstances and challenges. Psychotherapy's formal beginnings are difficult to pinpoint, though human beings have been talking to one another as mental health support for….

If you're uncomfortable or boundaries are broken, these are some red flags that you might need a new therapist. Sometimes a touch of affirmation or reassurance can go further than words could say.

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But is it appropriate to seek that from your therapist? How to Change Therapists: 5 Steps. What Is Sand Tray Therapy?

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All About Free Association Therapy. Read this next. How to Change Therapists: 5 Steps Maybe you feel uncomfortable with your current therapist, or your needs have changed. What Is a Self-Help Group? Medically reviewed by Karin Gepp, PsyD.